Am I fat?! My mom said I am…?

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Am I fat?! My mom said I am…?

Question
I am 13 years old. I dance twice a week. hour and a half tuesday. 3 and a half thursdays. I am 94 pounds and 5’3″. I thought that most of my weight was muscle since we do a lot of hard core warm up. My mom said I was getting a little chunky and since then i have been stressing about everything. before i thought i was skinny. now i look in the mirror and notice everything. i dont know whats wrong with me. my friends say i am not fat. i never used to think i was fat. I am a very fit person. i do eat some junk food every once in a while. but very rarely have chips or pop. i know those are the 2 worst junk foods. please help me. am i fat?
Answered by Elena
Your mom is stupid. You are underweight, not fat. When I was 13, I was 5’4 and 110 pounds, and people always told me I was skinny, and looking back at pictures from then, I was skinny. And you are over ten pounds less than I was, which makes you pretty darn skinny. Don’t listen to your mom. Don’t even think about trying to lose weight. Your fine and your mom doesn’t know what she’s talking about.
Answered by iCRAYONS
dont worry about it, if you exercise its almost impossible for you to be fat. You seem very tiny, maybe your moms just joking around with you. Maybe shes jealous, she is a woman after all.

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Answered by help
No you are not fat. If you would like to check in make sure go to this website:

http://www.dietitian.com/calcbody.php

Answered by Lildreamer
Your mom is dumb.
Look i am overweight and my mom tells me I AM SERIOUSLY OVERWEIGHT it’s the truth, but she called me fat since i was young and never helped me at all only calling me names. Now i decided to do something about it. But your not in any way fat. Simply NO NO NO NO your not.
My honest opinion.

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What to for Mardi Gras in Chicago?

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My 21st birthday is tuesday which happens to be Fat Tuesday/Mardi Gras. My mom is taking me to my favorite city, Chicago, for my birthday and I need some suggestions on things to do in Chicago on fat tuesday!!
Answered by dragonsong
cubbie137 – February in Chicago doesn’t really inspire much celebration, so Mardi Gras is not usually a big deal in Chicago.

While Chicago doesn’t have any Mardi Gras parades nor is there any dancing in the streets like in New Orleans, there will be many Mardi Gras parties. Please check out Chicago Metromix under “Mardi Gras” for what’s going on at (http://chicago.metromix.com/search/results?keywords=mardi+gras)

I hope you like Chicago and I wish you a happy 21st birthday!

Answered by bodinibold
Well, Heaven on Seven, a cajun themed restaurant with a couple of occasions, always does something special at their restaurants with beads, music, etc.

http://www.heavenonseven.com/

Another restarurant/bar callec Carnival is hosting a Mardi Gras/Carnival party with live music, etc.

http://www.carnivalechicago.com/

There’s a masquerate party at Crobar on Friday (though this is a mostly younger crowd; not sure how your mom will like it there)

http://www.crobar.com/

Sushi Samba, a Latin/Asian restaruant is having live music as well.
http://www.sushisamba.com/top.html

Answered by Diana
I would definately say go to….Heaven on Seven!!! It is my all time favorite restaurant in the city and it as a Mardi Gras theme year round with cajan/ New Orleans food!

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After years my mom finally admitted it…?

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After 9 years, my mom finally admitted that my younger brother is her favorite child. She was being completely serious.
Now it all makes sense-why she hasn’t said she loves me in maybe 4-6 months, why she always takes his side, why she always puts me down and compliments him…
Since she said that, I’ve apparently been acing “weird and nasty”, and she doesn’t get why…
I was going to get my nails done and get a haircut with my mom on Tuesday, but now I don’t even want to see her. For some reason, I feel a bit betrayed.
My younger brother is also my dad’s favorite child too, and my brother hates me (he hits me, calls me fat, ugly and zitty, destroys my property)
I feel completely unwanted in my home. I mean I know I’m overreacting and I kinda expected it, but still….
How am I even supposed to act when I find out I’m everyone in my family’s least favorite?
What am I supposed to do? I mean, I’m only fourteen.

another note: my grandfather, aunt, uncle, and cousins also favor my brother over me. It’s not even that I haven’ been nice to them, because I have been. I’ve been nice, polite, respectful, and rarely disobedient towards them because I’ve always been kind of a quiet kid.
The funny thing is, my brother mouths off to everybody, is spoiled, doesn’t do his schoolwork/clean his room, and my parents don’t do anything to stop it.

Answered by Manda-panda
I’m really sorry.
I think you need to sit down with your parents sometime when your brother isn’t around, and talk to them about it, and explain your feelings.
Answered by Hieu
Screw her. Right now, you are my favorite person within your family. The others have no sense of respect and morality. Stay strong, and always know that it doesn’t matter what anybody says about you, the only person who will ever know the real you is yourself. Prove to them that you are amazing, and you know it.
Answered by Captain Morgan
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Answered by mammy51355
I am sorry you are going through this.The best thing you could do is, talk to your parents alone and let them know how what they are doing is affecting you.Should that not work, maybe getting some professional counseling would be of some help.As a parent,I can’t see loving one child more than another, so I really do encourage you to talk to them and work this out.I hope this is of some help to you and wish you all the best.

My mom hates me and my sister and favors my brother because his a boy?

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My brother is a fucking ass hole * excuse my language, sorry ”
but his sooo spoilt.. last week has wanted an electric guitar so two days later my mom went out and spent about $ 150 ( i think, or more.. ) on a guitar for him..
He wants some ps3 games, the next day she goes out and buys like $ 100 worth games for his ps3.

he wants a dragon lizard pet thing, she goes out and spends like $ 125 on one for him * not including the tank and accessories *

any time i want anything thats even $ 20 i have to wait until my birthday, his so gay and annoying!!! I hate him!

Last week the teacher in school called my mom in and said ” your daughter is going to go so far it life, she is sooo clever and educated ” and was just saying positive things about me..

This week ( tuesday ) they called my mom into my brothers school and said his in trouble for sticking his middle finger up at people and swearing =|

and she didn’t even tell him off, he thinks he can hit girls and stuff. He has never been disciplined or anything, even if he calls my dad an ass hole and rude names for no reason and my dad goes to hit him and my mom screams and says ” if you hit him, it will be the end of our relationship ”
when I grew up and if i did something wrong my mom would tell my dad to spank me and my sister =|
and when I was a kid I went to bed at 9 am, my brother goes to bed at 2 am.

my aunt rang me and said “I’m sick and tired of your mom favoring your brother, do you want to live with me?” I said no because she lives in Puerto Rico and I’m in Miami and I just don’t want to leave college and stuff at the moment.

but yea she favors my brother like crazyyy. shes sexist and spoils him because his the only boy.
she cleans his bed room every day, when I was younger I had to clean mine, If not it would be left a mess.
she over feeds him and his like 50 pounds over weight. and his just a spoilt rude brat and I really don’t like him. his violent and gay.

When I went to visit my family in Puerto Rico who I hadn’t seen in 7 years all my family were saying to my mom about me and my identical twin sister ” wowww your daughters are georgoussss! ” and no one ever says anything about my brother..
and when I was out the other day this women stopped my mom and said ” are you the mother of them beautifull teen girls ( about me and my twin ), you should be really lucky to have such beautiful daughters ” and all my mom did was look at her..
she has no pride in us.
all my family in puerto rico say about my brother is ” his gained some weight! ”

I don’t know why my mom favors him!!!

all I do is cook, clean and everything for her, all my brothers fat ass does it sit down, eat, eat, eat, eat, watch wresting for 10 hours, eat eat, eat, eat, cuss women ( his sexist and gay ), eat eat, eat. sleep, mess up the house, eat ( thats his daily schedule.

shes very sexist, once i was dressed appropriatly and I went to the movies with my mom and these two guys kept starring at me, I didn’t even notice them starring and she kicked me and said ” GET UP ” and I was like ” why?” I was so baffled and she was like ” your making them guys looook at you !! ” I was like huh!!! I was just trying to watch the movie = and she grabbed me and took me out the movies and we couldn’t watch it..
she blames me for guys looking at me, because I’m a GIRL.

and this happens 24/7 her not letting me walk around the mall because of guys or wear trousers that aren’t loose.
she makes my confidence drop so low :(

by the way I’m soo sorry this is long, but help would be soo appreciated..

ayuda!

Answered by #2
Dile a mami ke me llame yo le digo ke no sea tan inepta caramba… sin verguenza ke es ella….

Preguntale si ella se acuerda del “Tio Nobel” en la Isla…..Y despues habla sobre el Tio Nobel… y despues dile que hablaran sobre algo ke esta “happening” de hoy dia (Como “New Moon” o algo)…

Nena suerte… (eres LINDA!!!!!!!)..

Answered by mexicanboy18
Here’s how I see it: your mom is a sexist; we know that for sure. I think that’s where your brother gets his influence. And I think in the past, your mom was raised with the wrong ideas about how men and women are in this world, and frankly, it’s a bunch of crap they taught her, and now she’s passed it onto her son. Men aren’t the kings of this world or anything like that. Besides, how does she feel as a woman? Does she like any of the rules that she was taught?

Look, don’t let your mom drop your confidence. Everyone says that you’re one of the most gorgeous women in the world; your family, your boyfriend, other people say so. Don’t feel bad just because your mom doesn’t think the same; besides, she’s only one person, and her opinion isn’t everyone’s opinion.

I can see that at least your dad tries to put some discipline in him. I think it’s time for some family therapy for your mom and your bro. Both of them have been brainwashed and have brainwashed each other. In order for everyone here to have a proper family relationship, both your mom and bro have to get mentally fixed. Oh, and it’s not your fault if you get checked out by guys; they’re just a bunch of sick pervs.

Your mom also has to understand that women are just as powerful and have the same rights as men here. What do you think feminists would have to say about your mom’s views? And also, what if your bro ends up hitting your mom one day? Besides, she can’t be his servant forever, you know. You and your sister are also her children, and should be treated as such.

VIVA LA RAZA!

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Comments

  1. Live to surf says:

    No, no your mom is not right at all. You are a healthy weight for your age, and you should be gaining more weight naturally as you go through puberty.

  2. Keela <3 says:

    People these days, not just you, seem to be more concerned with their weight than their health. We know that you’re 13 and around 5’3 but 94 lbs isn’t a lot, especially if you’re active. Next time you’re at the doctor or even the nurses office at school you can ask to be weighed and ask if you’re at a HEALTHY weight :) I’m sure that your mom was kidding, I can’t honestly imagine someones mom telling them that they are fat. Remember not to consider yourself skinny or fat because those are such bad descriptions dear. My boyfriend is 5’10 and weighs the same as my step dad who is 5’7, but neither are fat or skinny. Just healthy.

    I doubt you’re seriously overweight but if it bothers you then ask your nurse or doctor :) good luck, stay beautiful.

  3. Rose D says:

    You have a BMI of 16.6, which is clinically underweight and borderline dangerous. A BMI lower than 16 often results in hospitalization because the patient is literally starving to death. You need to gain 10-15 pounds to be healthy. Talk to your doctor.

  4. colin says:

    based on your height and weight we can determine your BMI (Body mass index).

    Your BMI is 16.6

    A BMI that is equal to or less than 18.5 is considered Underweight.

    Your BMI may indicate that your weight maybe too low. You should consult your physician to determine if you should gain weight, as low body mass can decrease your body’s immune system, which could lead to illness such as disappearance of periods (women), bone loss, malnutrition and other conditions. The lower your BMI the greater these risks become.

  5. 57Hi says:

    You are thin! Maybe when your mom said “chunky” she meant you were just filling out a bit, you know, growing like normal kids are supposed to. Anyway, you sound really healthy and the last thing you need to do is loose weight. Don’t worry about it.

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