
Breast Lump & Lymph nodes?
The plastic surgeon appointment was set for right after I got back from vacation on (August 7th or 8th).
The plastic surgeon said he could not remove the lump but could work with a general surgeon so remove it so that the cuts can be made by him to lessen the scaring and proceed with the breast lift.
Fast forward to August 12th. I am getting ready for work and as I put on deodorant I feel pain under my arm – decide this can’t be good and I call the OB office and tell them this, they say they will get with dr as soon as out of an exam room and give me a referral. 2 hours goes by with no contact from them so I go see my Primary care Dr who was willing to get me in right away and they immediately refer tme to a breast surgeon. Unfortunately the surgeon is on way out fo town and wil not have an appointment until August 29th. I call the ob back and again explain the issue – the fact that someone was supposed to call me back earlier and request a referral (this isn’t a stubbed toe) I am again told they will get with the dr when he gets out of the exam room. They did not call me back until 5:10 that afternoon.
I had called a friend of mine who has an ob as a friend and she told her OB what was going on and her ob said to give me 3 names of surgeons and if I am not able to book an appointment very quickly to call her back directly and she will call from her back office.
The next morning armed with the names I make calls and no one on the list has anything anytime soon. When I am on the phone with the last referred physicians office I ask if NY of their Drs has anything sooner and am lucky to find out that one does on the morning of the 15th. I go in and he immediately does a biopsy and schedules additional imaging tests. I find out a week later I have Triple Negative Breast Cancer.
Many people say the dr should have done a biopsy or additional imagine tests in February as this was much too large a mass to ignore and that it’s advancement into my lymph nodes probably happened in the last couple months. Does this seem likely or could it have been in my lymph nodes for 6 months without me knowing anything about it.
It sounds to me as if your OB dropped the ball, big time. To have felt a lump the size of a golf ball and not follow through, seems negligent at best. Possibly worse. Never see that man again. Talk to a lawyer about the possibility of a malpractice lawsuit. Seriously, I don’t give advice like that lightly.
The good news is that triple negative is often very responsive to chemo.

what items on my list should be scratched off?
the list of stuff we still need or atleast want to get seriously sucks
walmart has the medical kit that has the booger sucker,brush,clippers and more in a carying case, thats a must
step one diapers
alcohol pads for the cord
nursing bras
some baby wash clothes
bassinet sheets
crib sheets
mattress protectors
3-6 month oncies and night gowns
baby bath ( im not bathing her in a tiny kitchen sink)
night light since the main light is right above the crib
extra trash can to stick out on front porch for diapers
milk storage bags
playtex drops ins and bottles
nipples
anything im missing or what on that list is a waste???
im not getting a baby shower which really stinks..my family is up ny and my in laws are useless and our friends are broke so yea no good gifts ![]()

What does it mean when you have a sharp pain under your left breast that shoots up to your shoulder/arm?
Since then…i’ve been having really bad random pains above my rib cage on the left side. I looked it up + it said that i could have PCS-Precordial Catch Syndrome. They listed things that i should look out for if its not that. I have almost all of the symptoms::
Chest pain that extends into the left side of the jaw or arm
a cough that produces phlegm
Extreme anxiety with the pain or a feeling of “impending doom”
Blueness or paleness of the lips or fingernails
An irregular, rapid, or pounding heart rate
Marked difficulty breathing or catching one’s breath
So, i really think that you could help.
Thanks.
You could be having something as harmless but scary as chest wall spasms.
Go and talk to a doctor, or find a clinic that deals with stress induced physical problems. Or take a stress analysis test to see how you deal with stress, Stress alone can cause the symptoms you describe.
You need to believe in the Doctors that you are fine. Heart problems do not cause sharp shooting pains.
Why are you feeling so stressed to the point of anxiety? Let your parents know what’s going on and maybe speak to a therapist about your feelings. Stop researching because you will create more symptoms for yourself the more you read the worst case scenarios.
Try some yoga, exercise, meditation to help you get that stress out of your system. Once you believe that you are really ok, you will feel so much better. If you don’t, the symptoms will continue.
Calling experienced doctors – symptoms list?
Was “with” the boyfriend the 23rd. Supposed to get my period a couple days after christmas (28th-ish). Around the 4th or 5th of January, I’m having cramps, slightly tender (and tingly but tolerable) breasts, acne like crazy (like never before!), hairier (it’s horrible!), nausea, very vivid and odd dreams, I can feel extra acid in my stomach, I’m peeing every two hours, and I’m strangely VERY gassy!
I am not asking you if I am pregnant. Obviously, you cannot tell me that! But according to when I was with my boyfriend and when I was supposed to get my period, today’s date, etc. does it seem to you that I am pregnant? And when should I test?
Thanks!
PS – By the way, I had no period after Christmas.
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Cocoa butter for your nipples, In health food store, Vitamin E cream for your stretch marks, if any. In pharmacy, one tube of ‘Zinc Oxide” or “Zinc Ointment”. this is for extreme, extreme diaper rash. It happens sometimes. Im sure you’ll use disposable diapers, right? But by some cloth diapers. Use them for over your clothes when you’re ‘burping baby’. Spit-up sometimes stains. If you have the space, get yourself an nice rocking chair. They’re cheap enough in a unpainted furniture store. Throw a couple of pillows on it, and mom and baby can sit and relax. Good Luck. Keep us posted.
Sounds like a pretty complete and solid list. I wouldn’t change it.
Seems to me you are, you have all the right symptoms, and if your already feeling those symptoms, your body is obviously letting these horomones go, take a test and schedule to see a doctor with or without a positive result.
Take the test as soon as possible. It sounds like you’re pregnant. I’d say you have a little Christmas Eve Eve baby.