The “type of guy” I like changes?

I’m european, hispanic, asian, and native american but my skin type is more white/asian with a slight tan. I grew up in a very racially mixed family. In my immediate family, I’m the lightest skinned. My type over the years has expanded from hispanic guys, to native american guys, to black guys, and white guys. I tend to like tall and muscular guys like Miles Austin and Channing Tatum. Recently though, I’ve been taking a liking to Korean guys. Like the ones from the Korean dramas.
I find it hard to picture myself with an asian (and I’m not being racits, because i myself am asian). It’s more of an insecurity. I’m short, but I have latina curves. I’m a naturally athletic girl and I’m not fat, but I’m not stick skinny asian girl either. I have more or less a shape. Like hips, big booty, hour glass waist, legs that have muscular thighs and calves, etc. I just feel manly around really skinny guys. Is that weird?

I also tend to like guys with a sensitive, sweet, silent yet cocky side. I need someone who can take my crap and through it right back at me. I like guys that can be romantic and still masculine.

Anyways, I’m just curious. Is it like… weird for me to expand my type so much? Do Korean guys typically only like very thin girls, or would someone with a little more of a shape be okay?

Thank u !

He’s been treated like sh*t because everyone thinks he’s gay.

Just because he shaves his legs, wears girl skinny jeans, spends time looking around the girl section over the guys, paints his nails black, etc.

I didn’t think that could make someone gay. But, when we watched a movie (Dear John), during the middle part of the movie he was like “Im starting to think Channing Tatum is really hot.” I was like, how about the girl? He was like, nah.

And he tried on some shades, and I was like “they’re a bit crooked though,” he was like “Thats how I roll”

Ever since then I’ve been confused. He’s a really cute normal looking guy too, sorta skater/punk style.

Yet, he CRAVES girls attention. He hurts himself and sends pictures to girls because he wants someone to care about him. I told him he doesn’t need to do that with me because I already care.
Anywho, it just confuses me. I think he’s more confused himself.

Any idea how to handle this?

After the movie he did make a move but I nudged back away for some reason. So he was attracted to me. We held hands too.

I didn’t like him, I didn’t really have a good time because I was thinking about someone else who’s in the hospital the whole time. I might have lead him on a little, but I wasn’t myself around him.

Anywho, what do I do in this type of situation? I want him to be my friend. Only.
He knows how I feel about the guy in the hospital too. I’ve told him I want to be friends only but he doesn’t really listen?

I’m currently following this workout routine…

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/workout2.php?name=Two-Day+Get+Big+Workout&description=Build+muscle+and+get+big+in+this+Two-Day+a+week+workout.+&type=Split&different=2&goal=Build+Muscle&days=2&schedule1=Y&schedule2on=&schedule2off=&person=&email=&E1%5B%5D=Squats+or+Leg+Presses&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Sissy+Squats&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Leg+Extensions&R1%5B%5D=10-15+&S1%5B%5D=1&E1%5B%5D=Stiff-Legged+Dead+Lifts&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Leg+Curls&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Standing+Calf+Raises&R1%5B%5D=12-20+&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Seated+Calf+Raises&R1%5B%5D=12-20&S1%5B%5D=1&E1%5B%5D=Bench+Press&R1%5B%5D=8-12&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Incline+Barbell+or+Dumbbell+Press&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Decline+Dumbbell+Press&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=1&E1%5B%5D=Incline+Flyes&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=1&E1%5B%5D=Skull+Crushers&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=2&E1%5B%5D=Overhead+Triceps+Extensions&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=1&E1%5B%5D=Cable+or+Rope+Triceps+Extensions&R1%5B%5D=8-12+&S1%5B%5D=1&sy1%5B%5D=Thursday&E2%5B%5D=Behind+the+Neck+Pulldowns&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Low+Pulley+Row&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Front+Lat+Pull+or+Front+Pull+Up&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Stiff-Arm+Pulldowns&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Behind-Neck+Military+Press&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Lateral+Raises&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Upright+Row&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Barbell+Curls&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Incline+Dumbbell+Curls&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=2&E2%5B%5D=Concentration+Curls&R2%5B%5D=8-12+&S2%5B%5D=1&sy2%5B%5D=Monday&exercount=24&s2r=1

….but I don’t think it will help me to achieve in one year the body I want.

I have a year to work out in and ultimately I would like the end result to be something like this:

http://unwrappedphotos.com/photos/channing-tatum/featured/channing-tatum-dear-john-2-featured.jpg

I don’t think two days a week is enough, nor the number of exercises I’m doing. I cut it to two days because I think I worked out too much before and didn’t give my body enough time to rebuild the muscle tissue.

Can anyone point me to a good workout that will help me achieve the type of body I want?

Ok I can read the signs, its plain to see. We are both 15 years old and go to HS together. I have known him since I was little, we used to not like each other…. at all. Growing up we never played nice, we would always tease each other and be rude. But now that that we are both matured I have really gotten to know him, and hes gotten to know me, we both fell….. fell hard. He is cute, wicked cute. He is an avid hunter, and likes to wear camo and such, hes a funnnnyyy guy. We sit next to eachother in in science, and we both FUHLIRT. I’ll catch him looking at me and he will smile and turn away, and vice versa. He will lean his leg against mine, play footsies, he once rested his hand on my leg and realized what he was doing and took it off and turned red. He is funny and sweet, and always comes and sits with me at lunch. He all but ripped his sweat shirt off when i mentioned I was cold, and i wore it all day. When i was having a bad day he asked me what was wrong, i was in a very bad mood and told him to eff off, instead of ignoring me he put a piece of paper down between us as class was starting, and he simply wrote “do you want to tell me about it?” I wrote him a novel pretty much of what was bugging me, school issues family problems and my best friend was in the hospital getting emergency surgery, he made me feel so much better. Lately hes been kinda jerky to me, but i know there is a sweet boy underneath. he just tries to impress his friends or something. We both share the same BF, and we used to have a thing. We were sortof BF/GF but things broke off for the right reasons but we are still best friends. We will hook arms and walk or hold hands, but we know we arent good in a relationship together like that, so we are best friends. Well the guy I like thought we were still dating, and he was getting pissy whenever i hung out with my other friend, and thats why. I cleared things up telling him we were just friends. He was really happy after I told him (this was a few days ago) Now his friend told me he liked someone else when i confirmed my suspicions but he had noticed how he acted around me, and how he was always hanging out with me. last week he told me that he liked a girl , and he said some girl i didnt know. well a few days ago he asks me if i liked anyone and i said not at the moment, unless Channing Tatum is free (hot hot hot actor) and he just laughed, and i asked “well, how about you?” and he just said “I dont really know anymore.” and then he signed off. What does that mean????? Im very confused. Everything science clas one of us brings out a sheet of paper and starts a conversation. we fill up 2 pages every class Just talking to eachother. He will jokingly tease me, but then he will go to far and say a really rude fat joke (im very sensitive because i used to be overweight and right now im at a perfect weight) or say something rude. He seems to take it too far and still has this rude egde sometimes. but then he can be this sweet boy underneath. I know he suffers from HTBS (Horny Teenage Boy Syndrome) and he seems to cant help himself when there is any mention of boobs. I was telling him a funny story about how my friend thought i said “come on in.” when i said “wait a sec.” and he barged in on me half naked right then my mom came up the stares, overall very funny awkward story because it looked so bad when my mom came up the stairs lol. Anyway, at the mention of being being shirtless he instantly was all over it saying “Yeha i bet he liked that…” i asked “what are you talking about.” and he said “I bet its awesome to see you topless why would you be embarrased?” I said “Maybe I dont need anyone seeing the scar on my stomacha from that bad riding accident” (while galloping a horse the horse tripped and i got thrown onto a log with lots of branches and i got lots of little deep cuts on either side of my belly button, and they now are red cracky looking things when they healed as scars) and he just said “whats wrong with scars?” And then i changed the subject. I asked my friend later what his deal was with scars, because he seemed way to interested (lol) and my friend knows about the scars on my stomach and he goes “You told him about the ones on your stomach?” and i said yeah he goes “Oh god he loves scars, hes proud of his own, its kindof his only odd thing” and that for some reason hit me hard, like he didnt care that i have scars on my stomach, he thinks they are unique. A friend of mine who i sort of used to date saw them and was like “What are those nasty red scars on your stomach? gross” and hence i dumped him. He seems to like me but im not positive, what can i do?
when i first put down BF it stands for best friend lol